#outthem

So.. I posted a photo on Facebook sometime ago with me and my baby. Nothing special about it. All good till one dude decides it’s ok to post a comment that sounded something like this and I will not censor it – “I would fuck you so hard it’s not even funny. Is your pussy ready for me?”. Yeah…yes I know this dude. We actually went to college together and he never seemed to be THAT guy.

I immediately took a screenshot of that and posted it with the hashtag in the title. Not long after I get a message from him in which he called me out. We dude – you’re calling me out – I’m here to meet you! He said that he thought the comment wasn’t inappropriate in any way and that there is nothing wrong with him expressing his sexual attraction towards me. I told him that having a filter goes a long way and that I will not take own the screenshot. I don’t think I need to say what happened after I posted that. A lot of women posted screenshots of their experiences.

Ladies – this is not ok. If there is something I’ve learned in this life is to take no shit from anyone. I don’t care who it is. If you decide to be a shithead – be ready to take the consequences. Don’t expect to put your hand on the stove and not get burned amigo. If your mommy didn’t teach you how to behave, then I will and it will be a lesson you’ll never forget.

I got a little carried away and I sent that screenshot to his mother, sister, girlfriend, best friend, brother, grandmother…pretty much everyone that mattered in his list. What makes me damn proud of my girls is that they finally had the courage to not stay silent. Keeping quiet about this shit is pretty much saying that it’s ok when it’s not. Put it out there for everyone to see. Expose them and maybe, just maybe, one or two of these humanoids can be salvaged. Maybe one or two will learn something.

As a man – you should treat a woman the same way you would like your mother or daughter to be treated. Nothing less than that. We are not objects and we don’t have to put up with your crap in any way shape or form. So lose the entitlement and grow a pair of balls and act like a damn man. Nice guys don’t finish last!

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I’m A Fabulous Dumbass!

Yes, you read correctly! I’m a fabulous dumbass! Still fabulous though…I’m a happy dumbass. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not putting myself down at all. I’m proud for being a dumbass. By being a dumbass, I learn everyday, I human and that’s beautiful. See? I’m fabulous, happy, proud and beautiful! What more could I possibly want?

I do want something actually. I want to continue being happy, I want to provide a happy life for my daughter, I want to fulfill a few dreams I have this year. I just have that gut feeling that things are finally falling into place. After a huge storm, finally the sun comes through. And no, to answer a question I received from a reader, there is no special someone. That’s in the works *wink*. Ladies, if you un-squint your eyes, you’ll see how many offers are out there and some of them are actually worth your attention. Not all men are pigs! Some of them can be pretty nasty (so can women), but there are some really good people out there for those who have eyes to see.

I also received another question from a reader or a request – to talk about being a single parent. I will elaborate on that topic in the next post. This is just me acknowledging that request and yes I will tend to that subject as it is a very deep one. There are many women and men who are single parents and bloggers who talk about this. I guess people need to find one person that resonates with them. I know that was what I needed when I was pregnant. So yes, I will honor that on Tuesday’s post. Now thinking about it, one post it’s not enough to talk about that so maybe I should start some sort of a series – every Tuesday a single parenting post.

I’ve got a few more requests which thrills me. Makes me think I’m not just sending things into a giant void. I will tackle each and every one of them and some of them I will turn them into series since the topics are very broad.

So that’s pretty much it for this one. I know it’s short, I just felt like writing.

What The Holy Fuck???

Have you ever had that moment when you feel like knowing more about someone and you google their name not really expecting to find anything you didn’t already know and your jaw just drops???

Well – it just happened to me. I will not reveal the identity of that person. Lets just say he was – to some extent – a part of my life. I was just bored and thought about googling this guy’s name. I found stuff I already knew, but something felt a bit off. Maybe my gut instinct started acting up so I decided to google the nickname they use on social media and that’s when things got interesting.

It’s important to mention that this person is no longer part of my life. Still, finding out that this guy has been lying about his age disgusts me to the marrow. Other stuff is equally as important, but the age aspect is the most sickening part. Yes, you guessed right – he is much older than he claimed, MUCH older. Just to confirm I did a few reverse checks online, given the fact that I have quite some info on him, and everything seems to click. It’s hard not to jump to conclusions, I cannot say I’m 100% sure about everything but I’m 85% sure.

I guess he nerve thought I would actually check. No idea, my mind is still racing right now. At first, I wanted to confront him about everything, but I quickly changed my mind because it doesn’t really matter anymore. All I can say about this entire situation is that karma is a bitch and he will be hit at some point. Sooner or later I do un-squint my eyes and actually see what it is to see.

Ok, I’ll end this here because I don’t want to end up writing more than I set out to do. I’m not here to potentially ruin someone’s life. I just wanted to let it out. Be careful on the internet as you never know who’s on the other side of the screen…

Oh For The Love Of…

…everything holy!!!!!!

Am I on glue or the fucking MLMs are just getting crazier and crazier??????? I’m a part of a few Facebook groups and it’s absolutely unreal how people take advantage of the financial lack of others. Not to mention the fact that my inboxes are constantly flooded with messages and emails from random strangers promoting “hot businesses that GUARANTEE a care free lifestyle”. What’s even more crazy is that my Facebook messenger dings like there’s no tomorrow from messages random people send.

I actually took the time to talk to one yahoo who started the promoting process with trying to guilt me. YES!!!! Guilt me! He saw that I have a child and he started his message with something along the lines with: “Would you like to spend more time with your child AND make a 6 figure income??” I mean seriously??? Fucking seriously? And the proceeded to promote a line of skin care shit then asking me if I’m interested in investing and becoming his business partner. Are people THAT stupid????

I do affiliate marketing for a living and working on my own business so this offends me to the bone. I work from home and the WORK is real! It’s not easy to start a business when you are actually SERIOUS about it. Making an actual living from home means really investing primarily in YOURSELF and learn Internet Marketing, Advertising, spotting the target audience, understand the actual process of CPA, CPS and CPL just to name a few. Posting imbecilic ads on Facebook or other similar platforms and manipulating people will NOT get you 6 figures a month/week or whatever.

I don’t make 6 figures YET, but I do make a good living from this. It takes constant learning in order to develop marketing strategies to attract customers. It takes time and a lot of work to generate that passive income everyone is talking about. Creating an actual functioning, successful business takes time and effort and money. It’s not an overnight thing. That’s just plain common sense! It pisses me off to see people who actually want a better life for themselves be taken advantage of. Who wouldn’t want more money? Who doesn’t want a better life for their kids? Financial freedom is not created within seconds just like losing weight is not an overnight thing.

Do I consider myself successful? Yes, but not successful enough to actually be qualified to talk more about it or to recruit people. I will do that eventually, but not before I will actually be confident that I am equipped to do so.

The truth is that people will always seek quick fixes. That’s just a basic human instinct, I guess…

Shortcuts in life don’t work, people! Never have and never will!

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